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Dear Sexpert, I have been married to my husband for 12 years and in the last two years his desire for sex has decreased as mine has increased. It has caused conflict in the relationship and frustration for me. What can we do to fix this? Horny in Houston

Dear Horny, Over the last several years I have seen more men with a low libido. I think partly because more men are coming into counseling with a variety of concerns, sexual issues as one of them. Stress is a major factor in sexual desire, as well as physical concerns and marital conflicts. Over a mans lifetime, testerone decreases and the need for sexual intercourse and ejaculation may not be the main goal as it once was. On the other hand, women may be coming into their sexuality as they mature. They may have passed the childbearing years, are more open with their wants and desires and more comfortable with their bodies. The goal is to be able to talk about the changes with your husband concerning your feelings. As your husband has changed over the years, so have you. Talk to him concerning what you need sexually as well as what his needs are. I have seen too many relationships where there is shame and blame. All this does is increase the negative feelings between the two of you and distance him more. There may need to be changes, but this may strengthen your relationship and possibly open up a whole new sexual world for the two of you to explore.

Good luck and Good sex

Lori

 

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