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Dear Lori, I am a healthy 33 yr. old male who has never had erection difficulties before and recently with my lover I am experiencing problems either getting an erection or maintaining one. My partner is getting frustrated and I now am trying to avoid having sex because I am worried it will continue to occur. I am not sure whats wrong. Please help. Helpless in Lake Worth

Dear Helpless,You are not helpless at all. This happens to the majority of men at least once in their lifetime. You say you are healthy, so I am going to assume there is nothing physical going on. I see a lot of men in the office with erection difficulties and most of the time it has to do with anxiety and stress that is going on in their lives or in their relationship.

The other issue is what we call in the sex business, anticipatory anxiety. You may now be worried you will not get an erection and the stress affects the chances of having one. Having a supportive lover helps to decrease that anxiety as well as not worrying so much about the erection and focusing on other possibilities of intimacy such as sensual massage, more kissing, focusing on your lover and less on your erection.

If it continues to be a problem, you may want to set up an appt. Good news is that it is not unusual at all and you will see a light at the end of the tunnel. Take a few deep breaths. It will be okay. Good luck and good sex.

Lori

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